When questions go too far

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ARTICLE: http://eslbrains.com/crc092

LESSON OVERVIEW

The main objectives of this lesson are to:

  • read an article about how to handle awkward questions;
  • discuss tricky situations and personal boundaries;
  • practise phrases to deflect uncomfortable questions.

Students talk about personal and sensitive questions, explore strategies to respond to them and practice setting boundaries. They work with phrases related to uncomfortable situations (e.g. open a can of worms, pry into, tread carefully), discuss to what extent they agree with some ideas and share their experiences and opinions. Students also analyse different responses to handle sensitive topics, imagine they are unwilling to answer questions and create one-liners to deflect them.

C2 / Proficiency45 minCritical Reading ClubUnlimited Plan

This is a Critical Reading Club worksheet. With this format, students need to read an online article at home and do the exercises in the classroom. Learn more about how to use such worksheets and their benefits in our post.

ACTIVITIES

This lesson starts with a warm-up. Students look at three questions and decide when it is appropriate or inappropriate to ask them. Moving on, they match the halves of sentences about handling personal questions. Then, students find phrases (e.g. on the defensive, airing dirty laundry) in the previous task to complete sentences about sensitive situations. Afterwards, they discuss the ideas from the previous exercise, agreeing or disagreeing with them. Following that, students discuss managing sensitive topics. Next, they match example responses (e.g. If I told you, I’d have to kill you) with the appropriate strategy (deflecting with humour). Students then share opinions on the strategies for handling busybodies. After that, they discuss situations (e.g. So, when’s your turn? – relative at a wedding). Students say whether they find them inappropriate and use the target phrases from the lesson. Finally, they practise deflecting the questions by creating one-liners using the strategies they learned.

ARTICLE

http://eslbrains.com/crc092

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  1. gr155

    The article seems to be behind a paywall

    1. Olia

      Thanks for letting us know! We can access it on our side without a subscription but Slate might have a metered paywall. Please try opening the link in an incognito mode.

      1. Dariia Tiniaieva

        It’s impossible to read an article(

        1. Olia

          Hi! Thanks for reaching out. Have you tried opening the article in Incognito mode? If it still doesn’t work, please email us at [email protected] with a screenshot of the issue.

  2. MauraL33

    Hi there,
    The lesson looks great, but when you click on the link, the source (Slate.com) says you need to upgrade to their premium subscription to read the article.

    1. Olia

      Hi! Thanks for letting us know! We can access it on our side without a subscription but Slate might have a metered paywall. Please try opening the link in an incognito mode.

  3. LesleyR

    The idiom to air dirty laundry is incorrectly used and makes no sense. The correct idiom is to air one’s dirty laundry in public. Airing one’s dirty laundry in private is fine it is the airing of dirty laundry in the public that is the problem. The “in public part” is crucial.

    1. Olia

      Thanks for your comment! We’ve checked with our proofreaders, and it’s acceptable to use the idiom without ‘in public’ since the meaning already implies sharing private matters publicly. Still, we’ve added ‘in public’ in ex.7 to encourage students to use the full phrase.

  4. Oscar

    The article isn’t behind a metered paywall, it’s just behind a paywall. I’ll leave a link to the archived version of the article if that’s ok: https://archive.ph/epUbE

    1. Olia

      Thanks for sharing, that’s really useful 🙂

  5. k8iegraham

    the erticle is not available

    1. Olia

      Have you tried accessing it in Incognito mode? If that doesn’t work, you can also try opening it here – https://archive.ph/epUbE

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